“The War at Home” quotes

(1996)
Movie The War at Home
Title The War at Home
Year 1996
Director Emilio Estevez
Genre Drama
Plot – A guy is traumatized by the war after coming back home from Vietnam. He cannot resume his usual life and, furthermore, he has to deal with his father's guilt-feelings, his churchy mother and his sister who blames him because he cannot integrate himself.
All actors – Emilio Estevez, Kathy Bates, Martin Sheen, Kimberly Williams-Paisley, Corin Nemec, Ann Hearn, Carla Gugino, Marcus H. Nelson, Michael Wiseman, Jena Kraus, Chad Morgan, Penelope Allen
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  • “- Karen Collier: She's gonna have a nervous breakdown.
    - Jeremy Collier: I know she wants one. I know she ain't gonna be happy until she has one.”

    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
  • “- Jeremy Collier: You told me that more people die in car-wrecks each year than died in Vietnam.
    - Bob Collier: Well, I may have said that...
    - Jeremy Collier: Not 'may have', did!”

    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    Martin Sheen - Bob Collier
    [Tag:accident, cars]
  • “- Jeremy Collier: The Indians saved the Pilgrims from starvin' to death, so the Pilgrims invited the Indians to share their first harvest feast.
    - Maurine Collier: Well, I'm sure the Indians were all Christians by then.
    - Jeremy Collier: Oh no, they weren't.”

    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
  • “I wish they could would make Thanksgiving on a Sunday. Then everyone could go to a service before they eat with their families. It'd be more religious, like it was with the Pilgrims.”
    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
  • “- Maurine Collier: I was taught to honor your father and mother. That's what I've tried to teach... I guess I'm not good enough to deserve that kind of respect!
    - Karen Collier: Of course you are.”

    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
    [Tag:parents, respect]
  • “- Bob Collier: I think you should leave for for your own good, I think it's the right thing to do, and it's my responsibility as a father. Once you're away from here, and had time to think about, I think you'll agree.
    - Jeremy Collier: I don't want it.
    - Bob Collier: Well, I want you to have it.
    - Jeremy Collier: No, you don't. You want me to...” (continue)
    (continue reading)
    Martin Sheen - Bob Collier
    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
  • “I'm sorry I prayed for you. I am! I never thought it'd be possible to be sorry for a thing like that! But I apologize to myself for all the times I got down on my knees and begged to God to bring you home safe!”

    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
    [Tag:prayer, remorse]
  • You know how in horror movies the door is swinging back and forth from one hinge in front of a dark room, and some stupid moron is walking up to it, just gonna go in, and you think to yourself, "Why is she doing that? Why is she going in there? What could possible make her go into that room? Doesn't she know better?".

    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
    [Tag:danger, fear, movie]
  • “- Jeremy Collier: What are these personal problems that I have?
    - Karen Collier: I don't know the medical term, but I suppose you could describe it as being a terminal jerk.”

    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
  • “- Karen Collier: I know you don't want to hear this right now. And I know you think I'm a complete idiot, and I know that the last you want to do right now is have a conversation with me.
    - Jeremy Collier: Knowledge is power.”

    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
  • “- Jeremy Collier: It's not that I'm asking for the car...
    - Bob Collier: Hm?
    - Jeremy Collier: ...But you know, Jesus didn't have a job.
    - Bob Collier: That's right. He didn't have a car either, and he walked everywhere.”

    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    Martin Sheen - Bob Collier
    [Tag:cars, christ, request]
  • “- Uncle Howe: I always say, you give me forty-five minutes and a Bible and I can prove conclusively that Noah's Ark could not have been in Turkey!
    - Brenda: Oh, he can.
    - Maurine Collier: I should study my Bible more.”

    Lane Smith - Uncle Howe
    Renée Estevez - Brenda
    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
    [Tag:bible]
  • “- Maurine Collier: I just don't understand what went wrong. His whole life he was so grown-up, so polite.
    - Karen Collier: War changes people.
    - Maurine Collier: War doesn't make you rude to your parents!”

    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
  • “The history of my family, like the history of civilization, is the history of war. The getting into it, and outta it, and over it... and Vietnam should have been no different. But it was. It's final battle was fought on an unrecognized front, far from the shellings and the napalm and the guns and the shooting... it was a battle my brother Jeremy...” (continue)(continue reading)
    Kimberly Williams-Paisley - Karen Collier
    [Tag:family, history, war]
  • “I wasn't screaming. I was using my loud voice.”
    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
    [Tag:voice]
  • - Bob Collier: I know you had a rough time over there.
    - Jeremy Collier: "Over there"! You can't even say it.
    - Bob Collier: What?
    - Jeremy Collier: Vietnam!

    Martin Sheen - Bob Collier
    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    [Tag:war]
  • “- Melissa: They were scary, your letters.
    - Jeremy Collier: They were scary 'cause I was scared.”

    Carla Gugino - Melissa
    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    [Tag:fear, feeling, letters]
  • “- Jeremy Collier: I'm not having dinner
    - Bob Collier: And why not?
    - Jeremy Collier: I had a big breakfast.”

    Emilio Estevez - Jeremy Collier
    Martin Sheen - Bob Collier
  • “Unless we're going to have a nuclear attack of some kind, it's hard to imagine what else could go wrong.”
    Kathy Bates - Maurine Collier
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